Life Lessons| Create Happy Moments

This 12 month period has being of growing, learning, accepting and most of all of knowing who I am, what I’m capable of and how blessed I am.

Being a mother of an Asperger’s syndrome boy gives you a new perspective in life. I really don’t know who is more blessed, my magnificent boy or me.

I don’t know who is the teacher, the kids or the parents. In my case I have 2 teachers that show me every day that being happy,  have fun and joy in life is more important than work, or paying bills. All this  is not as important as having time with your kids or family. Problems, troubles and responsibilities we will have all along our life, but family is the most important thing in the world. For me my boys are the reason why I get up every day and go to work, and at night when I’m so tired, I just look at them while sleeping and see how blessed I am. I might not get huge presents all year-long but seeing my boys every day and being able to provide for them, is a huge blessing. They are my present 365 days a year and I feel so blessed about it.

Last week my little one told me very sad that he didn’t remember his childhood. He is 9 and doesn’t remember when he was little. I always knew Asperger’s kids have trouble remembering but it was not clear for me how much. I ended showing his baby pictures and he was happy. But this is something that has made me think a lot.

A happy life is a chain of happy memories, there is not a perfect moment, we create the perfect moments with our thoughts and even with our attitude, we make them. If we are just waiting for the perfect moment to come to make your move and say hi to the love of your life, it may never come. You need to be attuned with the universe to know when it comes, to know when to act, just like the people who love to surf they feel and know when the perfect wave is coming, life is like that, you need to be in the present, living each moment fully and happy, because as my kid show me, memorizes can be lost or forgotten. A picture will help you remember all the joy you have in your life.

Don’t wait for the perfect moment because it may never come, don’t wait for the perfect day, just  create your  perfect day by your attitude, by being attune with the Universe, by being happy, by feeling safe, by feeling proud and by loving and accepting yourself. This is how I teach my boys to be, sometimes stress and worries come but when I make a mistake I apologize for being grumpy or tiered or not fun as they need me to be, but there is no day without me expressing my love to them.

Create good memories for your family, every action is important. Actions speak louder than words. And always be Happy!

Namaste!

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Life is like a highway | A highway to success

I remember when I had the opportunity to be on the road, sometimes for pleasure, adventure, while attending university or commute to work. I learned a lot just by looking at the road and to see how others drive and the reactions they have.
Life is like a highway or street where you see a lot of signs but in life those signs are people, experiences determined by our choices. Recently I had to make some choices and go back to the work force. I had the opportunity  to choose and let my intuition guide me , I got a temp job for the summer and one that can give the experiences I need for my next career step. I have learned a lot, more than I think of. About me, about life and about people.

I remember few weeks back when I had a bad experience at work, sometimes we face challenges or people trying to put us down, or a mean boss or jealous coworker or boss that they believe they are better and they deserve everything. I didn’t quit back then, I just accepted the challenge, you see, sometimes these people come like blessings in disguise and when we finish learning what we need to learn, a new door will open, a new opportunity will come your way and that’s what happened to me.

You just need to keep your eyes, mind and heart open and let your inner self, your intuition guide you to the next step. I know that sometimes we fear the unknown, we think the worst, or we are so attached to the job we have even though we feel is killing us inside because we think and believe that’s the only job or choice we can have. You know, when you feel this way, it’s your time to let go and take a walk through nature, see the sky, meditate, get your mind out of it. When you have your mind clear,  you will be surprised that there are so many things you can do as a job, you just need to find your gift, your talent. Don’t quit on your dream and believe in yourself because good things always happen. You might be driving though a storm, learn to appreciate it and see the beauty of cloudy days, the rain falling, or the sand storm, there’s beauty in all. And when you mentally  let go,  you will see the doors of a new opportunity open, you just need to believe.

Next time you are on the road or commute to work, see how you drive, what reactions you have with other cars, are you letting everybody pass you? Are you driving like if you were alone on the road, are you scared while driving? Do you feel joy when you face the other cars and pass them?

Our life is a reflection of us, pay attention if you are getting sick a lot just by going to work, or if many things around your home are breaking down, or not working, like your car, or the air conditioning, or your car battery, or your relationship, it’s time for you to sit and think what are you doing wrong. Nobody will have the answer, just you and you need to think , choose and decide wisely. And if you make a mistake, don’t worry, mistakes are lessons we all need to learn and there’s always a second time to do it better. Don’t forget to use the magic word, Sorry, you don’t have any idea how much weight is lifted when you ask for forgiveness and don’t forget to forgive because that is the way we heal ourselves.

Life is just an extraordinary adventure that takes us through ups and downs, through happy moments or sad moments, nothing is forever and life has many lessons for us to learn. Life is our journey to find ourselves, if we let our intuition guide us. Just open your eyes while you drive through life and choose the right highway to happiness and success because it will be waiting for you.

To your success,

Kinsky

LOVE is Always the Answer

Happiness depends upon ourselves. Aristotle

Happiness depends upon ourselves.
Aristotle

Once again we were remained about how fragile our lives are and how we can lose someone we love with a blink of an eye. And our instinct, our first emotion is to deal fear.
When we place ourselves in that place full of it

, we become weak, insecure and we let open the door to all negative emotions, and believe it or not, they can destroy our individual world.
We all are creators of our own realities, of our own lives, our own dreams and purpose and being happy depend on the realization of all of them.
These times are times to show off our courage, our love, and our happiness. We all need to feel that Love create us, and yes, it is painful what happened but sometimes we need to get up, take off the dirt and move on.
Because whatever your religion or your faith you need to feel that we all are safe and build positive, caring and loving thoughts around us as well as those who got harmed in Boston.
And when you feel sad, or have fear, know that you are safe always, no matter what. We are safe and there is a world and a human brotherhood who supports you, because even in this situation good people came to rescue.
And it all depends on how you see your life, half empty or half full. The decision is yours.

Love Kinsky

Appreciation | Gratitude | Abundance

Have you ever thought about how many times we don’t appreciate what we have? Have you ever wonder when was the last time you felt gratitude towards someone or something or just by being alive? Have you ever asked why Abundance hasn’t come in your life?

Well, appreciation and gratitude are very important for the abundance to come to our life. We need to be thankful and find our peace and love for the people and circumstances we are living, no matter how hard they are because they have the key for abundance and happiness to come to us.

We can create a better world just by simply telling someone how special they are or the impact they have made in our lives. Many times we don’t tell our family how much we love them. We are not eternal and we might not have a second chance to tell them how important they are in our lives.

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Find the Answer Within You | The Adventure of Being| by Transformational Author Kinsky

Find the Answers Within You | The Adventure of Being by Transformational Author Kiinsky

There is always hope, there is always tomorrow

In the dark of the night and in my solitude, I heard a voice inside me.

-“Who are you?” he asked.

Not knowing the voice, I replied, “I do not know. I’m not sure. I know I live, but I don’t know the reason for my existence. I know I have only problems and stress during my days.”

-“So where’s your treasure?” the voice asked again.

I replied, “I have it in my family, my work, and my possessions.”

-“And what is the purpose of your existence?” the voice continued.

“Death,” I replied. “This death that haunts me every day reflected in this world full of evil, suffering, and pain.”

-“My son,” the voice continued. “You must not fear.

“Find your essence within.

“Find your wealth within, because that’s where you’ll find your value. Not in material things.

“And after finding it, you will know the answers of the world around you. You will know who you really are, and you will know where you’re going.

“Put your treasure where it belongs. Put your hope and your faith within, and you will know how great you are.”

As human beings, we each have a body, a soul, and a spirit. We have a finite and an infinite part, but sometimes we focus on our physical needs more than in who we really are. When we have gone through a storm, we need to quite down our mind, find something that makes you happy.  Try to find something that you are grateful for. Try to be positive and try to meditate and give the following statements or affirmations:

1. I am harmony.

2. I am peace.

3. I am happy.

4. I am happiness.

5. I am prosperity.

6. I am abundance.

7. I am love.

Whenever you feel sad or hopeless, use one of those phrases. Always use “I am” with positive atonement. “I am all the good there is.” Wish this for others and for yourself.

Control your thoughts. Speak well, think well, and act well. You’ll see that everything you do will be better every day. And remember there will always be better tomorrows.

Blessings

Kinsky

In the Middle of the Storm | Self Help | Transformation | Hope | Hurricane Sandy

We have seen recently an incredible super storm, a hurricane call Sandy. My thoughts and prayers are for the afterhours and for all the people who lived the super storm.

But sometimes I think of all the rest of us who have to go through life and experience a Super Storm. It is when all our lives are shaken and we are moved from head to toes to think, to do, to see and perceive things differently and after this storm we are transformed, we are different.

In my life I have lived many hurricanes that had made me grow and understand life better, for many people is not “nice” or ‘safe” because life moves you and takes you from your safety place to become more.

Many of us prefer to stay where we are and see the clouds go by and see the day turn into night and the night into day, the days into months and years, and they are still the same, unmoved. Last year, I went to a self grow seminar and I learned that we are like trees, a tree grows and keeps growing, but when we cut the tree, the tree dies.

We all have lived through pain, and negative or bad experiences that in a way has “injured” us or cut us, we prefer to hold that pain instead of letting it go and keep moving forward. We prefer to blame someone instead of admitting that is our fault and we are responsible of what happen. And when years go by we are stuck in the same situation and in a way we start dying.

Nature as well as our Source play a very important part in our life, sometimes we need this tough experiences to move us in to action and to wake us up. To give thanks that we are alive, no matter in which circumstance we are, we are alive and breathing. And believe it or not, God will provide. A new day will always come and we will always have tomorrow to do things better or right.

It is painful to lose someone in a Natural disaster, or to lose your parents or a member of a family, or to lose everything, but if we are still here, it means that we still have things to do, learn and the most important task of all, we need to become. It will take time to heal and to be in our feet, but as long as you are breathing, as long as you have a new day, things will get better and we need to have FAITH and BELIEVE that everything is going to be alright.

I learned this kind of the hard way, but after having few hurricanes in my life, now I know that the best thing is to always be thankful and grateful for every single good thing that happens to you today. I lived many days and months in a very harsh situation, with 2 little boys. Alone without my family around, and “no one” to depend on, I had to see and feed, pay rent and provide for my family. For me my ex husband’s excused of I don’t have money, doesn’t exist in my vocabulary, God provides and those days where I didn’t know where the money was going to come to pay rent or to put food on my table to feed my boys, came, always came, and it still does. And every day I make sure to thank God, or my Source, for being able to provide for my family without any help of my kids’ dad. Miracles happen if you believe and have faith.

I had to learn it, it doesn’t matter how strong or dreadful is your storm, we can always get up and move forward. We can be tired or hurt and we might need a break. Take a break and rest, get your strength back and move forward because you will always have tomorrow and a brand new day to live, to hope, to wish for a better tomorrow. Nothing last forever and there is ALWAYS light at the end of the tunnel.

And when there is hope, we can still make it and you will make it! I’m sure.

In the middle of the storm or in the eye of the hurricane we need to be calm, with our feet well grounded on the floor, our head clear to think and our heart full of hope and strength to do and solve what we need to do. Ask for help, connect with your source, to God, He will always deliver and lead the way.

My thoughts and prayers go for those who lived this Hurricane. May God guide you, protect you and give you strength in what you need to solve and live. Many blessings for you and your family and may God keep you safe today and always.

KINSKY